Do You Dream Every Night?

10 fascinating facts you should know about dreams

Verywell / Brianna Gilmartin

We spend roughly one-third of our lives sleeping—and during that time, we dream. Many theories exist to explain why we dream, but researchers still don't know for sure. Some believe dreams have symbolic meaning, whereas others believe that they relate to waking life.

What scientists do know is that just about everyone dreams every time they sleep, and those dreams can be fascinating, exciting, terrifying, or just plain weird.

Most of those dreams are forgotten within minutes of waking. Most people dream in color, but some dream in black and white. Our dream content can also differ from one person to the next, and some people can control what they dream about as if they were writing the script. If you've ever wondered what makes dreams so fascinating and sometimes strange, exploring some dream facts can help you gain greater insight into this state of consciousness.

We Dream Every Night

The brain is active all night long. Brain activity in the forebrain and midbrain is particularly intense during rapid eye movement (REM) sleep, which is when we dream.

Adults and babies alike dream for around two hours per night, even if they don't remember it. In fact, researchers have found that people usually have several dreams each night, each typically lasting for five to 20 minutes.

During a typical lifetime, people spend an average of six years dreaming.

We Forget Most of Our Dreams

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We forget up to 95% of all dreams shortly after waking.

According to one theory about why dreams are so difficult to remember, changes in the brain during sleep don't support the information processing and storage needed to form memories.

Brain scans of sleepers have shown that the frontal lobes—the area that plays a key role in memory formation—are inactive during REM sleep, the stage in which dreaming occurs.

We might also forget our dreams because of changes in the levels of certain neurotransmitters, specifically acetylcholine and norepinephrine, during REM sleep.

Yet another study found a link between dream recall and the brain matter density of the medial prefrontal cortex (MPFC). Participants with higher white matter density were more likely to recall their dreams.

Not All Dreams Are in Color

According to a 2017 study, around 50% of people report dreaming in color almost all of the time. However, they also suggested they dream in black and white around 10% of the time. An older 2008 study suggested that roughly 12% of people dream only in black-and-white.

People younger than 25 rarely report dreaming in black and white. However, people older than 55 report black-and-white dreams about 25% of the time. Researchers believe this difference results from childhood exposure to black-and-white television. An older study, which found that people in the 1940s rarely reported dreaming in color, supports this idea.

Men and Women Dream Differently

Researchers have also found differences between men and women in dream content. In several studies, men reported dreaming about weapons significantly more often than women did, whereas women dreamed about clothing more often than men.

Another study showed that men's dreams tend to have more aggressive content and physical activity, whereas women's dreams contain more rejection and exclusion, as well as more conversation than physical activity.

Women tend to have slightly longer dreams with more characters. Men dream about other men twice as often as they do about women; women tend to dream about both sexes equally. Women also report having more nightmares than men.

Animals Probably Dream

Many think that, when a sleeping dog wags its tail or a sleeping cat swats its paws, it's dreaming. Although no one can say for sure, researchers believe that most animals go through REM and non-REM sleep stages, so they probably do dream. 

Animals might not experience dreams in the same way as humans, however. In other words, they might not remember images or attach a storyline to them.

You Can Control Your Dreams

A lucid dream is one in which you're aware that you're dreaming even though you're still asleep.

Lucid dreaming is thought to be a combination of consciousness and REM sleep, during which you can direct or control the dream content.

People can learn how to have lucid dreams using various techniques, including mnemonic induction of lucid dreams (MILD) and senses-initiated lucid dreams (SSILD). These involve waking up after five hours and repeating a phrase like "I will remember my dream" or focusing on the stimuli (sights, sounds, sensations) in your sleep environment, respectively.

Approximately half of all people can remember at least one instance of lucid dreaming, and some are able to have lucid dreams frequently.

Negative Dreams Are More Common

Researcher Calvin S. Hall, collected more than 50,000 dream accounts from college students over more than 40 years. Made available to the public in the 1990s by Hall's student, William Domhoff, the dream accounts reported many emotions during dreams.

Several factors affect the emotional content of dreams, including anxiety, stress, and certain medications. Research has found that external stimuli, including good and bad smells, can play a role in positive and negative dreams.

The most common emotion experienced in dreams is anxiety. Generally, negative emotions are much more common than positive ones.

Blind People May Dream Visually

In one study of people who have been blind since birth, they still seemed to experience visual imagery in their dreams, and they had eye movements that correlated to visual dream recall.

Although they had fewer eye movements during REM sleep than the sighted participants, the blind participants reported the same dream sensations, including visual content.

You're Paralyzed While Dreaming

REM sleep is characterized by paralysis of the voluntary muscles. This phenomenon is known as REM atonia and prevents you from acting out your dreams while you're asleep. Basically, because motor neurons are not stimulated, your body does not move.

In some cases, this paralysis can even carry over into the waking state for as long as 10 minutes, a condition known as sleep paralysis.

Although the experience can be frightening, it's perfectly normal and should last only a few minutes before normal muscle control returns.

Some Dreams Are Universal

Although dreams are often influenced by personal experiences and may serve important adaptive functions. People across the globe report having similar themes in their dreams, although there may be differences based on their unique cultural experiences and environments.

For example, people from all over the world frequently dream about being chased, being attacked, or falling. Other common dream experiences include feeling frozen and unable to move, arriving late, flying, and being naked in public.

Takeaways

Dreams can range from the fascinating to the anxiety-provoking to the just plain weird. You might wake up scratching your head and wondering "Why did I dream about *that*? While there's a lot we still don't know about dreaming, we have discovered a number of intriguing facts that can provide greater insights into how and why we dream.

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Kendra Cherry

By Kendra Cherry, MSEd
Kendra Cherry, MS, is a psychosocial rehabilitation specialist, psychology educator, and author of the "Everything Psychology Book."